LOVE thy FRIEND..

Q.how do u want your partner to be?
A.he/she should be a good friend.
the ans comes in micro-seconds....
there are many other points too,but this answer you will find comman in all.
even i believe that our partner shud be a good friend with whom we can share our good and bad times,secrets etc.
so ur love should be ur best friend.
but its inverse is not true.
u cannot develop crush on ur best friend.i mean its ridiculous.
i guess this is the mistake which most of the people commit.they feel they are in love when they share a perfect rapport with a friend.
but the truth is they are just friends and not lovers.
to be in love is entirely different then to b friends.its just a entirely different stage.
a stage above friendship.
consider a pyramid with love at the top and friendship just below that.
that can even be explained by these two scenes:
SCENE 1-
adam and eve are two childhood friends.they share everything.crushes,secrets,mistakes commited everything.later on one day they both were in a beach.suddenly a cool breeze blows away eve's dupata.it catches adam's glare.background music starts and he feels" ohh my god i m in love with her".
i m sorry to say but this only happens in karan johar movies.
SCENE 2-
adam and eve met in a comman friends party.they both gets attracted to each other.adam moves forward and strikes a conversation.he asks for her no.they started talking on phone.their meeting become frequent.they started sharing thier feelings,secrets etc.then one fine day adam proposes eve.
now if u see in both cases they were good friends.but love is only in 2nd case.
i always believed love needs attraction at first.but that doesnt mean all attractions are love.
its very trully said u might have many good friends but you love only once.