Wednesday, March 26, 2008

WOMEN- naam hi kaafi hai..

Society is always male oriented
i dont know which fool is still using this phrase...
i guess it should be now restated to..
Society from now will always be WOMEN oriented
nowadys everywhere you will find women.....
various books like know ur women, wat women wants, how to impress ur women..list goes on..these books are written by both male and female authors..
u will hardly find any on male..
pink is the colour of the season ..( i must admit gals look cute in that)..
u will find many cases where husband quits his job to look after kids while wife concentrates in her career...and it is simply because she earns more..
my roots are from that state where female to male ratio is higher and where kids till early 1980s had their mother's family name attached to them..
in roads u will find guys checking out gals.....and gals checking out gals..( dont take it wrong,gals r usually checking wat the other is wearing,bag etc)..
we always complain that gals take a lot of time for dressing up or in make up... but we forget all these small things when we see her (eight wonder) and loads her with compliments
we live in a country where a woman is the President and as good as PM( i know our PM wont mind it)....
we call our country mother (bharat maa)......and one of our sacred river is named after a godess (ganga)
man......when was our society male oriented?????
as women are confident,strong by heart, independent etc.. there are things which must be changed in society.
(i have even stated this on my orkut profile).
why cant women ask their men out for a date? why cant she pay for it? why cant she pull the chair out and make sure that her boy is comfortable?....why cant they...
i know it looks good only on papers....and cant be brought to practise..
even i wont let my gal do all these things..
as at the end of the day..its all about making ur LADY happy..

10 comments:

Keshi said...

ty for stopping by my blog Nirmal :)

Ofcourse women n men both should enjoy life and take the lead equally. And thats why I asked Anuj out on a date in my blog ;-)

Keshi.

Nirmal said...

@keshi..
good going gal..

Galnextdoor said...

well i guess ure view absolutely justified... n i agree wid u..

but i dunt agree wid d last 2 things. i n a few of my gal frnds pay for their own expenses when on date and well i, myself proposed to 2 guys ... so big deal abt it.... if u want something, get d guts to have it! Its an equal world!

Solitaire said...

did u check out hum tum IV and V on psychobabble (my other blog)...also come check your story out.

Nirmal said...

@foram..
i agree with u ....
i was adressing it to gals who dont have guts......and wait 4 boys to do the honours..

Nirmal said...

@solitaire
yup did it.....u have got a fun blog..

Unknown said...

This has a nice flow to it and addresses some really deep issues.
Very Well written, I must say.

I hate generalisations. Absolutely.

Nirmal said...

@alok..
thanks for your great comment.
many hate generalisation..but it takes place a lot.

rayshma said...

nice PoV... but somehow, i don't think it's really very true... i mean, calling a country maa, or worshiping goddesses or ogling at women doesn't make it a female-oriented society, does it? but that's a deeper issue, i guess...
tx for stopping by my space... now off i go to read the rest of ur blog! :)

Nirmal said...

@rayshma..

thanks 4 cuming..
wat i meant was everything revolves around women in society b it today or yesterday....
well bout society u r right its a deeper issue...i wont touch tat....